"What song should we dance to at the wedding?" — this is often the first question that comes up when thinking about your first dance. Some couples have a special song they're emotionally connected to. Others search for something "classic" that would work.
Here's how to think about finding the right song.
Waltz or Another Style?
Tradition calls for a waltz as the first dance, and waltz is danced to music in 3/4 time. Classic waltz songs like "The Blue Danube" are often very fast and vary in tempo — they're not ideal for beginners.
But here's the truth: you don't have to dance to a traditional waltz. We can create choreography for any song you choose. What matters is that the song feels right for you.
Choose Based on Your Level
For Those Who Want to Keep It Simple
Choose a calm song with a steady tempo. It gives you more time to think and feel confident. Good examples:
- "Come Away With Me" — Norah Jones
- "A Thousand Years" — Christina Perri
- "All of Me" — John Legend
- "Make You Feel My Love" — Adele
For Those Who Feel Confident
With a bit more energy, you can try faster or livelier options:
- "That's Amore" — Dean Martin
- "Annie's Song" — John Denver
- "Kiss from a Rose" — Seal
Personal Touch Always Works
Want to do something more unique? Go for a song that means something to you — regardless of genre or style. With the right choreography, you'll shine on the dance floor no matter what song you choose.
Here are some examples of songs we've created choreography for:
- "I Don't Want to Miss a Thing" — Aerosmith
- "Thinking Out Loud" — Ed Sheeran
- "Marry You" — Bruno Mars
- "Love Me Like You Do" — Ellie Goulding
- "Great Balls of Fire" — Jerry Lee Lewis
Practical Tips
- Length: Most wedding dances are 2–3 minutes. We'll help you choose the right section of the song.
- Tempo: We can adapt the choreography to the tempo — slow or fast, both work.
- Unsure? Bring a few options to your first lesson and we'll help you decide.
Need Help Choosing?
We discuss music selection at the first lesson and give personalized recommendations.
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